smooth life
Two days ago, one of my close friends called to convey his Deepavali greetings. During our casual conversation, he suddenly asked me to speak with his son, who was recently married, and handed the phone over to him. After exchanging festival wishes, his son asked me a very personal and unexpected question. He said, “Uncle, my father often talks about you and your family — how all of you live so harmoniously without any disputes. Is it really possible to maintain such a good relationship within a family? What is the secret behind your smooth family life? Please share some suggestions.” For a moment, I was taken aback by his question. It made me pause and reflect deeply. Am I truly a good husband? A good father? A good son to my parents? And a good son-in-law to my in-laws? His words made me realize how important it is to occasionally look inward and evaluate ourselves — not through our own eyes, but through how others perceive our relationships and conduct. It was a simple c...